I been out of seducing girls for so long, I'm not sure what to do please help?

TofuTofu · 2012-10-02T18:32:01+00:00

Please repost this in /r/AskSeddit. Thanks!

song_lyric_answers · 2012-10-02T18:21:02+00:00

did you ask her to hang out or did you say what you were doing and that she was welcome to join.

In my experience, I tend to phrase my plans in such away so the fun isn't dependent on the girl being there. For example, I've would have far more success saying "Hey I'm going to 7 flags tomorrow with some friends, you're welcome to join me" rather than "Want to come with me to 7 flags tomorrow?" Though your objective is the same in these texts one asks for permission while the other clearly shows your independence, as well as your ability to create your own fun.

And yeah, don't apologize! Don't you think it delegitimizes your motives. If your interested in her, be proud of it. She's the one who should apologize.

Don't be needy, show her you can have fun by yourself.

She sounds awesome and I understand how easy it is to get in the mindset where you're so scared to mess it up, it scares/bores/sends the girl away.

Title	I been out of seducing girls for so long, I'm not sure what to do please help?
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Date	October 2, 2012 5:48 PM UTC (13 years ago)
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