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[–]FC2SparkleMotion 6 points7 points8 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I'm still new to this subreddit so if I'm wrong everyone can correct me. This really seems like a very specific scenario only to you. Not to be insensitive to your feelings but did you really expect random strangers on the internet to tell you how to approach a specific girl at your favorite donut store?
Sorry man, but read the FAQs, read about game, read field reports from other people... then take what you learn from that and apply it to your situation, don't make random strangers on the internet do that work for you.
[–]PrinceofSpades 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Here: Sack up and talk to her; I am sure that you haven't ever mentioned anything towards her more than the usual talk about the donuts you are ordering. Next time, ask her bluntly when her shift is off or introduce yourself while looking into her eyes and confidently ask for her phone number. Worst case scenario, you get rejected/ she has a boyfriend and you move on because you are the shit, you are outcome independent, and there are 4 billion other women on the planet.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
There's a coffee shop in the gas station by my house (kind of a bad ass gas station tbh), and a couple of the girls that work there are gorgeous. I haven't closed or tried because I have a girlfriend, but I have (somewhat ironically) gotten coffee with them after work once or twice.
The best advice I can give (fairly new to the subreddit, but I've never had a real problem with girls), talk to her. It's really easy because the introduction is done for you, so provided it's not very busy, you should have plenty of time to get in a few words. Think of what you'd want to know and steer the conversation that way. It's also really easy to cut short since she's serving you coffee or donuts or whatever. After a couple times of that (some people would probably suggest one, but I tend to be a bit safer), it should be easy to just suggest you two go hang out and get coffee or something when she's off.
[–]TheRealBramtyr 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Jesus christ, this is r/seduction, not /r/middleschoolcrushes.
Cowboy the fuck up and ask her out.
If you think the kind of likes you already you just need to be assertive when you ask her out. "The coffee here's alright but I can't say I'm impressed by the decor. Lets grab one at ((cafe)) after your shift." If shes working a busy morning shift I wouldn't expect or want to talk to her much just then.
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