Heyy Seddit, Long time no see. I've recently been at nofap and lemme tell you it's been life changing. If you currently jerk off... Stop... it will help!

So I went out tonight... Monday night... I'm currently trying to stop smoking weed with no success. Anyway I went to the bar that was offering free nachos for anyone that buys a pitcher ($13 dollar; yea right what a deal welcome to new york) Before I buy the pitcher the bartender tells me the kitchen just closed five minutes ago. No Deal. I buy the pitcher and say fuck it! I continue to watch Antiono Gates and Peyton Manning lead me to a fantasy victory. Once I'm done with my beer I walk around to the other bars and they're all dead... except one. This one is crowded with people and I'm confused and underdressed. I still don't give a fuck and I walk up to the bouncer (after scouting the two bars ahead) and ask him if it's ok I go in with a hoody on. He gives me a look and I stare back confident as fuck... he says sure why not... go get yourself a doctor...

I'm thinking to myself WTF doctor? I walk around a bit and head to the bar to get a drink and start chatting with an HB8. Her BF is there but she seems really into me. We chat for about 20-30 minutes (pretty long time for bar) and then met another dude who wasn't a doctor but similar to me in just trying to have fun (it seemed like he knew people there unlike myself who was solo dolo) I mingle for a bit... met this girl... flirted for a while then went to the bathroom.. When I came back we started dancing then grinding. She had rythme and was definltley into me... It was the end of the night so I just got her # and suggested we meet up some other time and she was down.

Moral of this story is to keep a positive mentality. I literary had a girl tell me... "I met someone else...please delete my number... and it was nice meeting you" I didn't take it hard I simply responded. .. " Lol that was quick! We work fast :) I met someone else as well... wish you the best!" Which is true...A girl I've been attracted to for quite some time was over on Saturday and we made-out/cuddled. No sex but that takes time.

If there's one thing I've learned about pickup/seduction it's to leave woman better off than you found them... Don't be bitter, angry or resentful. Enjoy the time you got to spend with them and wish them the best if they decide to move on.