Okay, so this is a first for me. I've dealt with AMOG's and even competition over a girl between three or four of my friends, and it is PATHETIC. High school shit, really. I'd thought we'd all gotten past that, learned to coordinate our efforts so that everyone can win. Apparently not yet.
So last night, I met tonights wing through some buddies. Great guy, we hit it off, I introduced him to the cute friend of the foreign girl I was chatting up, everything was going swimmingly. I ended up going home with a few of these girls later after he and my other buddies left, whether or not that has a part to play in tonights encounter, I don't know.
Fast forward to this evening. We meet up around dusk, smoke some weed, and head out. Since he wasn't too familiar with the scene in the neighborhood, I recommended my favorite bar, one that's always bumpin, almost as soon as the sun goes down. Sure enough, we get there, and the place is already about half full, and the ratio is awesome.
Obviously, obeying the 3 second rule, the first thing I do is go and open a 3 set of two HB8's and an HB9, with my best and favorite opener. Moments later, all three are laughing, loving my banter and I'm in like fucking Flynn. I opened the group, not the girl, as I always do, but once it's clear they're all down with me, I begin to make moves on my target, HB9. she responds really well, throwing me IOI's all over the place, and initiating the kino even before I did. Hot damn, all was going exactly as I would have dared to hope.
Few minutes later, my aforementioned wing comes up, no biggie. I introduce him to all three girls and soon were all laughing and talking, me still mostly with HB9 while he has isolated one of the 8's, still hot as fuck, I must say. So we go on like this for a bit, I have a drink or two, go out for a cig, and all of a sudden, Wing has pretty much ditched his HB and is focusing only on HB9. We both clearly hold her attentions periodically, and I start to get a bit annoyed. We bounced the chicks to a club a few blocks away, and Wing was constantly shuffling to get in between me and HB9, in front of me, etc.
Next bar, same shit. Im getting quite passively incredulous at this point, but am thinking that maybe this kid just isn't aware of how Wings are supposed to operate, fair enough. I begin to passively deal with HB9 (which is probably what I should have been doing since the beginning) and focus more on both of her friends, the HB8 that wasn't really chatted up thus far specifically. We leave, since they've gotta get a train, and Wing does all the same maneuvers in terms of cutting me off. Fuck it, I get HB8's number, ditch 'em at the station, and head home, a bit confused.
Tell me friends, what and why? I must reiterate, Wing does NOT seem to be a douche, although I've only met him once. Either way, I'm curious as to what happened, and how I should approach the issue. More importantly, Im sure some of you must have had some similar experiences, and I would love to hear.
Thanks again, boys.
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