You might remember the FR I made last week about it being my first night going out (which felt amazing) And I can tell you tonight was 10 times better.

First set- On my way to the club I approach 3 men and jump in on their conversation about the local hiphop scene. Cool guy frame initiated and had a solid, fun interaction.

Second set- Just borrowed a cigar from a senile man and had very light chitchat.

third set: Asked group of 3 girls outside club what there favorite song from Macklemore is (didnt lead to anything)

Fourth set- Just rapped to a guy to try and impress him to pass the time in the line to the club (no talking, I like hip hop a lot and like to rap to people)


In the club I was in my head for the first 15 percent of the time I was there....I feel extremely lucky because a group of males who were cooler then me were like "you look like your having fun" and really pushed me to start dancing with girls which I did...... I danced with about 7 different girls tonight. It was VERY fun and a huge improvement.. Next week I will go for a phone number.

WHAT I LEARNED: If you are feeling comfortable in your own body and can let yourself have fun and dance with the music you CAN and WILL WANT TO go up to girls and dance with them. Most of them will let you.... but you have to know which girls are willing to by reading their body language.