What's up /r/seddit? I'm a 23 year old male, about 5'11" 240 lbs. This is my first post here on seddit from lurking around the FAQ's and side bar for a few days. Here's a little back ground on me and my situation. I've only had 2 girlfriends in my life. Mind you I never hooked up in high school never kissed, nothing, until college. College was just as weird and awkward as high school except with more Hb8+'s running around. I met a girl I became friends with, we hung out and helped each other through some things we were going through. One night she calls drunk as a skunk and wanted to fuck. Yeah it fell into my lap (no pun intended). Next morning, fucked her again and took her back to her place. It was nice. Two weeks later I got fired from my job and it forced me to move back in with my parents, yeah something every 21 year old wants to do right. I have no game. Never did. I didn't think I wasn't good enough for girls. So, coming home I enrolled in the community college here, switched my major and i now have better grades than I ever had. That's a check right? (getting my life back together.) next up, what makes me badass. I have cool friends who are supportive, live active lives, have similar hobbies etc. Ok that's all fine and shit but what about you that makes you badass? I'm intelligent, I'm studying computer science and excelling at it. I've been a semi successful Dj for the last 5 years, I love music, I'm a bit of a beer snob, people like me as I have awesome friends who tell me that I'm awesome as well. I think I'm attractive and I think I live an incredible life. I keep up on latest things like tv and movies, politics. Ok so , what's the fucking problem? It's taken me up till now, to realize it that I am amazing person who has always settle for less , nothing, or never got the hints. I had alpha in me the whole time I just never unlocked it, from being scared. Scared of what people would think or say or worse, being rejected. On that note, reading a few of the posts have really encouraged me to step my inner and outer game up. No ones a pro on there first day but, hey we all have to start somewhere. Looking at myself. Yeah I'm a bit heavier dude. That's always kinda plagued me. Time to work on that. I've been thinking of a fitness regimen I can get on. I don't want to be a bean pole but I think it would help so I'm gonna do that. Next up text game. Don't have that quite yet but I got a number from a hb8 tonight, so Im getting on that. I'll leave you with a field report, tonight was my homies birthday, went to apple bees with a big group of people, HB8 sat right next to me. I made it a point to meet everyone, girls and guys, everyone at the table. I made small talk with each girl. But my main target was the girl next to me. I held eye contact, kept the focus on her. Had a great conversation on drinks and which ones she liked and didn't. She told me she would like to go out some night and try a few of these aforementioned drinks. Bam, how did that happen? Everyone started going home, so I gave her a hug went to pull away and she gave me hold on after hug. Like hey I want to keep touching you because you seem awesome. Anyways, all around great night. It was such an ego boost, which I kinda needed to be honest. I want This all the time. Soo I'm diving in head first. One thing like I said before is that I want to lose weight and lose the mentality of not being good enough, which I dropped. So this is what I'm proposing. Today I start on myself a 90 day challenge. I want to be noticeably more confident. I want to keep learning the ways of seddit and I want to drop some weight. I think this is perfectly attainable in the next 90 days. Thanks for the early tips, they're working. :) Any thoughts, concerns, advice I'm all for it. Cheers.