What would you do if the girl you're trying to pick up with was crying for some unknown reason?

2012-12-13T10:41:29+00:00

No offence but if she's crying in class there's probably a real reason for it, asking how best to 'deal' with it without losing attraction just sounds ridiculous to me. I think people lose sight of what PUA is and it's more of this attitude that girls aren't actually human.

If anyone is suffering, and you care for them on ANY level, then for me it doesn't matter I'll see if I can console them. Regardless of whatever shit has gone on in my personal life.

An example. A girl I loved that I was friend zoned with had a sudden fatal accident happen to a close family member. I didn't even think of how I could play this out to my gain because I knew that didn't really matter right now. I knew she was just stuck at home alone feeling like shit.

So I went over with a big McDonalds order, stack of Movies, and a big bag of weed. We talked about her recently deceased and I made sure to make her happy, if only for the duration of my company. A month later we were dating and got into a long term relationship soon after.

Point is, PUA should be used for self improvement. Not to manipulate some poor girl who is clearly very emotional right now.

DrWoollyNipples · 2012-12-13T05:47:57+00:00

Go up and hug her. No pussy hugs, go up and make her feel entirely surrounded by you. And let her know that you want her to open up to you. There shouldn't be a difference in being a pua and being a considerate fucking person. And if you get friend zoned, get her to help you hit on her friends. Win-win-win

CosmicJokes · 2012-12-13T11:09:21+00:00

God, how about you stop being an asshole? She´s a fucking human being, this is NOT the time you think about seducing her! Seriously, what the fuck?

If you care about her - comfort her. Don´t try to kino or any other bs. That shit has it´s place, but it´s not when she´s in an emotionally unstable place.

I´ve been reading a bit on here, just because I think it´s interesting. And I don´t have anything against PUAs. If you need a little help with your game - fine. Girls can decide if they want you or not. But don´t pull that stuff when someone is down. It makes you look like an uncaring asshole who doesn´t think women are as much human as you are.

2012-12-13T05:32:12+00:00

I would try boyfriending her. Think Kino, hand on her back/around shoulder, try to listen to her, etc. As douchey as it sounds, if she's crying, she's emotionally vulnerable, and will cling onto anyone willing to try to comfort her.

GeneralRouge · 2012-12-13T15:34:50+00:00

hug, reassurance, distraction.

By distraction, I mean distracting her from her problems. Give her something positive and fun to think about.

ozzy91 · 2012-12-13T04:32:06+00:00

"frankly I really don't care about many people's problems." Haha this with an image of the girl sobbing in class made me laugh. Bad I know but whatever. If I were in that position I would probably use the opportunity to score 'care factor' points. Sensitive me listens, offers input, tells her to forget about it, and move on to my dick.

NahDudeFkThat · 2012-12-13T09:21:22+00:00

make her cry a little more. make that emotional impact. and then you comfort her and make her feel very happy - another big emotional impact. dont forget to get physical.

make women feel things.

Title	What would you do if the girl you're trying to pick up with was crying for some unknown reason?
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Date	December 13, 2012 3:17 AM UTC (13 years ago)
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