raise your hand if you've ever had approach anxiety at a party or a bar at some point in your life. ok so everyone put your hand down and try this out next time you go out.

Instead of worrying about starting a convo with a girl, and worrying what you're gonna say to carry on the converation etc.. etc.. Just go up to any girl there and tell her how good she looks tonight.

what's she gonna say?? No? is there really any rejection to worry about??

Ex.

You: Hey! how's it going? just wanna say you're looking gorgeous tonight. Her: No! I don't. stay away from me. leave now??

it doesn't work like that, if she didn't wanna be seen, she wouldn't be there. Listen, try doing that with in the first few minutes you get somewhere, if possible do it a couple times and that will get the inital approach anxiety out of the way and you'll have a bit of confidence on your side.

not to mention, some ladies may have taken some notice in you, in the mean time ;)