Talking to a prospective girlfriend or someone to bang. We were drinking tonight and naturally started delving deeper. I told her some real personal stuff. It sucks bc I ruined that by copying her at some point, not initiating, and she didnt know if she trusted relationships (or me ?) bc she was just coming out of one.

Could I have helped her feeling more secure or is that a matter of time? Im also bitching bc it seems that actions speak louder than words, even if you really meant them.