[Q] I have quite a lot going for me, how can I use this to my advantage?

ThrowawayPUA · 2013-01-20T17:31:39+00:00

One of the big issues of PUA is that we need to learn how to convey our good qualities in a way that women can connect with us. Unfortunately, other than dancing, a club probably isn't a good place to convey those qualities. But another issue of game is that you need to get some initial attraction going, before you can interact enough to show those qualities.

This is all something you will develop as you study game. But let me give you an example. I play guitar, and I sometimes talk to women about playing guitar. I have never been in a band, and only a few people have ever heard me play guitar. The women I talk to have certainly never heard me play guitar. But they sense my passion for music when I talk about it. Women want a guy who is passionate about something, it makes them think the guy can be passionate about them.

svennice · 2013-01-20T19:19:17+00:00

Don't forget: super modest!

2013-01-20T17:34:57+00:00

Just my two cents, so take it for what it is: Random advice from someone you don't know. I wouldn't ever bring these things up randomly, but just let them come into conversation organically. I assume you already know this, but it doesn't hurt to repeat it.

d8_thc · 2013-01-20T19:43:15+00:00

Still talking about Neil Straus and DHV? You don't know enough about game.

Continue researching how to be who you really are. All your talents will just naturally come out instead of you qualifying yourself with all your shit.

2013-01-20T17:32:31+00:00

Just let that stuff DHV you through conversation. You'll have to make sure you don't come across as bragging but that shouldn't be too hard if you drop those facts naturally when she asks about them. You can leave your guitar out somewhere she will notice in your house.

Just curious, what field is this that other people are interested in your doctoral dissertation?

2013-01-20T20:09:58+00:00

If You want to impress girls don't bring it up,just let it come out naturally when a situation arrives where you'd normally talk about yourself or pick up a guitar with a guy friend. I've started to do this with women. It proves you're not insecure and when they stumble upon the fact I'm a med student they tend to be utterly impressed that I didn't make it a topic of conversation whereas most people would. They'll never forget you, and think you're the best guy on earth.

ben0wn4g3 · 2013-01-20T23:17:01+00:00

Next chick you meet, just list those things to her, exactly like that, tell me how it goes.

(Don't!) DHV in openers, what have you been reading?

DoYouLikeSoup · 2013-01-21T04:46:19+00:00

If you are a doctoral student you must be at least in your mid to late 20's, possibly flirting with your 30's.

You're a good catch, and I mean husband material catch, beware that a lot of women once they get close to 30 switch into looking to become someone's wife, all the while continuing to have fun with the bad boys who are not husband material.

I've been in your situation: a good catch; and I've also been the bad boy. I prefer being the bad boy.

Title	[Q] I have quite a lot going for me, how can I use this to my advantage?
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Date	January 20, 2013 4:45 PM UTC (13 years ago)
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