Random party, high and drunk, but I'm feeling unstoppable. I end up taking charge and leading HB8.5 ~20-year-old away from two guys by asking why they're in the kitchen and not on the dance floor, offering my hand, she takes it, I lead her, turns out the only music playing was in an empty room with the lights off. I close the door, tell her "we're just gonna dance so don't try anything" then start kissing on her neck, ears, lips, telling her how great her hair smells, etc. I keep turning her on while teasing and playing hard to get. Clothes start coming off, she starts moaning, but we end up going to her place since she was concerned about the door not having a lock and someone coming in. Get to her place, proceed to continue on her couch.

I hadn't done this kind of thing ever, but I had the confidence and general knowledge from reading seddit, and the opportunity had finally presented itself beautifully. Only problem, either cause I had to pee really badly, or I had drank/smoked too much, or maybe because it all happened so suddenly and I wasn't prepared mentally...whatever the reason, I couldn't get my lil buddy to wake up. She seems not really versed in helping out, or perhaps was lazy. I don't make a big deal out of it, just keep fingering, a little oral, kissing all over (including on the forehead), moving my hands all over, slapping her ass, etc. She is biting her forearm so she doesn't scream or make noises since she is in the dorms, seems to have an orgasm a few times. She seems to be loving all that, but when I start fingering again, she says she can't, that she is too sore. When i start kissing all over her again she says she likes THAT, with a smile. Try fingering after a bit again, says she is too sore and can't. She puts her head on my shoulder saying she is tired. I stay for a bit, trying to figure out what's going on. I do only a bit of comfort building, then head home after a bit.

I texted her the next day saying we should do it again but when im not both high/drunk. She hasn't responded after 1 day.

Question: Should I text again, or call, or wait?

I couldn't figure out if she wanted to cuddle, or if she was kicking me out, and whether she was looking for anything more (dating). I don't know how big a deal it was to not be able to get it up. I think she is cute and hot, and would love to replicate the night but do more. But I don't know the protocol. I would actually like to get to know her a little more because then it is more meaningful and fun, but don't want to come off as too willing. I'm okay being an F-buddy/FWB, but don't want to make her think I "got mine" and don't want to do more by not calling, etc.

TL;DR: First real makeout, ends up being way more than I was expecting; shoot her a text next day saying i had fun dancing at the party and we should do it again, and explaining not being able to get it up (too drunk and high). Don't know the protocol - do I text again, call her, or wait (and if so, how long)?