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[–]RedditAntelope 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link
I know should break the contact with her but she's very likeable person and I'd like to keep her as a friend.
Nothing wrong with keeping someone as a friend... social contacts are a fun thing to have. People are fun and also help you meet other people.
The thing with her is that you can't kino her.......though she kind of kinoed me during the night, in the playful way, punching me or making me quiet, nothing serious.
Is she a girly girl or more of a tom boy?
I told her I don't want to try to pick her up again and want to keep her as a friend. Didn't believe me and got mad on me. Then I said I even would be happy to help her find a man that will care about her (she's looking for a serious relationship). Got a little mad more. And here's the weird part. She told me that I am flirting with other girls to make her jelous. I was like fine whatever, don't care - got somehow even more mad on me.
Now this is a strange exchange. It's highly possible that she's actually into you if she's going to mention that you flirting with other girls makes her jealous. However, there are too many complicated things going on here. She shuts you down when you try to pick up on her (apparently) and yet she shows signs that she would cock-block you, given the chance.
Here's the question about "no kino girl", how do you deal with this type of girl?
Unless I find such a girl interesting to decode for the challenge, I throw a wet blanket on such girls. Given a choice, I'd keep your own pick-up activities out of her eye, especially when she starts breaking out the "fatal attraction" kind of rhetoric like, accusing you of trying to make her jealous, getting mad when you say you're going to leave her alone and finding offense when you offered to be a wingman. Yikes. It almost seems like she has her sights set on you but wants to turn you into a guy who doesn't want to play. Which sounds unfortunate for her.
That's actually a few alarm bells. A girl like this could really f--k with your play. She could run around disqualifying you. Making scenes. Cock-blocking in general. She may already be doing this. If you were feeling charitable, you might warn other guys about the social dangers presented by this girl.
[–]piggybabe[S] 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
That's just odd, she pmed me on fb this morning, telling me that I became some kind of casanova or ladies man, bla bla dumb stuff about school and asked If I am going to date that girl from the bar last night. Also stating that she's not jelly but laughing. But, w/e I'll deal with that somehow.
So, when you meet girl that is kino-blocking or whatever you call it, you just drop it and move on right? No way to break that shield? What about being sooooo delightful that she starts to playfuly touch you and you're like "hey hey don't touch me please!" ?
And no, she's not a boy-girl. Very cute and girlish.
[–]RedditAntelope 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That's just odd, she pmed me on fb this morning, telling me that I became some kind of casanova or ladies man, bla bla dumb stuff about school and asked If I am going to date that girl from the bar last night. Also stating that she's not jelly but laughing.
Not jelly... that's not how it comes off. lol. Methinks the lady doth protest too much.
I think the whole point of that message she sent was probably to find out if you were taking yourself off of the market and maybe to compliment you.
I guess my point is that it's not so much about whether someone is kino-blocking but rather if interest has been established or not. After you establish that, then you try to move in and if she blocks then you go less direct, more playful.
[–]Maik3550 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
That's very similar situation to mine that I had and still have (sort of, even though I am less and less interested in her). I'd suggest leaving her alone and being yourself, which means, not breaking friendly touches (when you feel like it) but also doing it to other women (when you feel like it), not making her special one. At least, that's what I do. Don't just ignore her, act casual. Her shit is her shit.
I touch everyone and talk to everyone - became my habbit. You know what she told me? That I treat her different, asked how, she said "f.e. When u sit on a coach next to a girl, you put your arm around her or flirt (which is bullshit) and you don't do that to me" well, told her it's because she doesn't like when someone touches her.
Jesus christ, women's logic is fking killing me. She's hot and suddenly she's cold.
[–]Maik3550 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
she is either needy insane person (seriously insane) who requires attention but pushes you away when you give it to her or it's just her way of showing that she likes you just wants you to try harder (not rape, hehe, just maybe a different tactic or something). I'd run away, because it's more likely that she is just crazy (abused in childhood) and your relationship wouldn't last long (if you like being free and independent man). It seems that she possibly could be a control bitch, and she will use shaming and other nasty tactics in your relationship with her too. So, be careful. Of course, I could be wrong. It's hard to judge from only one point of view.
[–]puaCurveBall[M] 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
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