Hello, In my previous thread you could read that I changed and started going out to meet women. I am not looking for anything serious, I just want to have fun - I don't lie to girls about my intentions and it's weird but none of them said "omg go away" or "ok thanks" they actually accept it.

Even though I consider my game quite good I don't understand text game... bridge between #close and date... bridge between date #1 and date #2.

I. fking. hate. texting. Doesn't matter if it's through facebook or phone. I just hate it, of course, I try to keep it playful and funny - but I'm not the one who initiates this kind of "convo". Aaaand obviously I minimize it, like exchanging couple messages and then sending msg stating that I'm busy f.e. "Listen, I'm busy, gonna text you later."

I know I shouldn't spam her, show too much interest but don't I show too low interest? I didn't get rejected because of that... yet. But my lady-friend told me she has lost interest in some guy because he was texting her back too often. I can only imagine that his texts were kinda crappy, not funny, 2short n shit like that. What are your thougts on that?

Is there any "good" guide for guys like me, who don't like to text? I saw couple of those guides, but they're like "hey bro, send this, send that, exchange texts". I'm not old 21m, I just feel like it's for teenagers and I try to keep it clean and simple. Maybe I should try to change my mind, huh ?