Im about to go to a house party, what is one last piece of advice that I should take with me?

ActAct · 2013-02-10T00:14:30+00:00

talk to everyone

start talking to people the instant you come in

if you're scared of doing of something that means you should do it

too_old4this_shit · 2013-02-10T04:24:16+00:00

dont get drunk. You dont want to be wasted in somebody else's house

timinator1000 · 2013-02-11T12:25:52+00:00

Bring a condom

Kjm520 · 2013-02-10T01:51:45+00:00

Like the other guy said, talk to everybody. But do this while spreading positive vibes. Don't go in and run around annoying and interrupting everyone. When you talk to someone, (pretend if you have to) to be truly interested in what they have to say.

If you don't know what to say: At least say "hey, good to see you", but focus more attention on those you want to direct the vibes. People literally can talk endlessly about themselves, so after the first sentence they say to you, respond with a question regarding something they hinted at (with true interest in what they have to say) and if they feel your interest is true, they will response with lots more information, therefore giving you lots more options of where to direct the next question, therefore continuing the conversation.

If you successfully do this in a positive true manner, with an open mind, while maintaining patience and conversational manners, people will flock to you to talk. They think they are conversing with you but in reality, they just feel good talking to you because you actually are allowing them to talk about themselves (remember, while portraying a true interest).

Oh, and don't make it obvious you are only using questions. Throw in some "ah", "yeah", "right", "oh, I see", and the such while they are emptying their minds. Occasionally reiterate what they say. And of course, give some personal input, but don't try to steal the light!

If someone is blabbing off about shit you already know about, don't stop them. Remain persistent with showing interest. But throw in some "well, what if" using knowledge/experience you already know, that will either allow them to reach a new profound conclusion (that you already know), or to throw a twist in their dialogue.

Again: spread positive vibes, maintain an open mind, create true curiosity regarding the interests of others, ask questions, BE HAPPY, and most importantly, be yourself.

2013-02-10T19:17:22+00:00

talk to everyone.

High five the host, bring spare booze, and when you see a guy with an empty hand offer them the drink. Introduce yourself to hot girls, whatever.

House parties are great places for social interaction, because even if there's a room with the loudest music on, you can always get drunk and talk to someone in the other room.

Title	Im about to go to a house party, what is one last piece of advice that I should take with me?
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Upvotes	5
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Date	February 10, 2013 12:10 AM UTC (13 years ago)
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