I have been chatting to a hot MILF on OKCupid for almost a week now. I made this possible by a week of gentle persuasion before that, she kept telling me that I am cute/handsome but too young for her until last week when I opened chat asking her plans for St. Patrick's day. She told me that I was persistent, and then started talking to me.

We chatted for a good half hour, when she had to leave. I asked her to meet sometime for drinks and told her my intentions (that I intend to have fun conversation with her and I would make my move on her coz she is sexy). She reminded me of the age gap (she has two boys in early 20s, so that is on her mind, I am 31) and said she will have to think about it, let's keep it at chat right now.

Last night, I asked her about her plans and she said she got work and gym, so I told her she should ditch one of those things to meet me. She told me that she likes my confidence but she has to think about it. She keeps telling me I am very cute. and calls me by nickname or pup (am I being kid zoned?)

I believe that I have done enough to establish a sexual frame with her.Do you guys think I should give her more time to meet, or be more persuasive or completely cut off talking to her?

Any advice would be helpful. Don't bother writing if you think MILFs are overrated and want to lecture me about it.