Hey guys, just looking for some advice on what I could have done differently/additionally with this exchange I just had with a bartender I met over the weekend. This all took place on FB chat last night:

Bartender: Hey, how are you?

Me: Doing good, just watching shit on Netflix. How about you?

Bartender: Just sitting at home cleaning up, in other words I'm bored on facebook and can't sleep lol

Me: Lol at least you're doing something productive. I'm just lazy and can't sleep. What kind of mischief did you and Simba get into last night? (I will give more context about this below)

Bartender: Last night was Sunday right? lol not too much that I can remember...I may be forgetting or lost a few hours somewhere

Bartender: But I think we had fun

Me: Haha that kind of weekend for you too, huh? Between all the places I went and people I met, I definitely don't remember everything.

Bartender: Yeah this weekend was bad. I think I'll go easy on the drinking for a little while lol

Me: That's what you say now. Just wait til the weekend haha I've said the same thing before

Bartender: I'll be working all weekend hopefully

Me: Maybe if you're lucky I'll head down and visit ya if you're working

Bartender: ....I dislike the word maybe

Me: I can't promise anything. I'm a busy man. Got a lot of people to see and only a limited amount of time.

Bartender: I think I'm worth a quick hello at minimum ;)

Me: Well if you promise to make me a good drink, I might be persuaded to make an appearance

Bartender: oh so now I have to bribe you? lol

Me: It wouldn't hurt

That's where the conversation ended even though she continued to stay online. I took it as a shit test and didn't respond so it looks like it doesn't really matter to me if I see her or not this weekend. Just looking for advice on how/if I should have escalated better and when I should have done it and just general advice on what I could have said differently so I can improve my game.

Context about simba: He was a little stuffed lion she had with her that she would give to people and take their pictures. As you can imagine, there were quite a lot of sexual ones taken with most of the guys but there were some normal ones too.

Thanks in advance seddit. I look forward to your advice and really appreciate all the awesome posts on here. They have already helped me tremendously and I'm excited to keep working and improving my game.

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