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When is it right to push/pull, and when is it too much?

9468741605218604 · 2013-04-04T18:44:15+00:00

I think I've been abusing push/pull to protect myself, and it's hurting my relationships. That's my theory at least. Back when I was a...

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April 4, 2013

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Title	When is it right to push/pull, and when is it too much?
Author	9468741605218604
Upvotes	6
Comments	5
Date	April 4, 2013 6:44 PM UTC (13 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/1boer4/when_is_it_right_to_pushpull_and_when_is_it_too/
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well with me I know it's easy to get carried away with because I like making jokes and I kinda like mutually insulting people. this can work in small doses but where it stops working is if every comment in a 'push' and rather than be this really cool guy who's cool to have a conversation with it can become a bit of a battle with someone who's trying too hard

I'd say just ease up on the push & pull. take it away from the front of your brain along with all the other moves you pull as it should be in the back of your head if you're having these kind of problems. if you just relax a bit more with your sets as well as with yourself you should be alright as you should naturally be able to talk to a girl and get her interest

once attraction has been established you want to start isolating, getting sexual in conversation, kino (kino should be an ongoing thing which happens and slowly increases from the start) and start closing rather than continue to play push and pull. you can still p&p but it's what you should be doing the least out of all the other stuff I said.

you also have to read the situation so that you're not making a move that's impractical. does it look like she has to go? get her number asap. does she seem kind of nervous because all of her friends are watching you two getting cosy? isolate.

hope that helped

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