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Normally I don't really go out mid-week because I work full-time but this time was different. Jaricho, asked me to do some daygame but this idea got out of hand because the place I live in has studentsnight on tuesdays. We got the idea rolling in the whatsapp group and ChanterPanther and Esarit decided to join the evening. (This group is still open for other people, PM me)

We started off with some daygame. I walked with Esarit on the other side of the sidewalk. I saw Chanter and Jaricho giving high fives while I was haveing a nice talk with Esarit. We didn't spot any hotties but after a while we saw a group. We walked confident and while we stood close we asked them about the nightlife of Leiden. They told us they where new and where going to their row club for students. The conversation was awkward at first but as girls gathered around us I recognized a waitress from a restaurant I flirted with a week ago. The whole group dynamic changed and we got accepted by all the girls. The flow of the chat got on but we felt they wanted to go so we ejected.

We walked around for a while and lost Jarchicho and ChanterPanther because they opened a 2 set. While walking past the canal I noticed an HB8 and that was when something clicked in me. I was so attracted to this girl that I acted different. I walked confident, slowly, raised my hand while walking towards her and looking her straight in the eye. I did this from 10 meters away. This movement had some synergy and inner peace (something I never felt because of approach stress I normally have). She got intrigued from the first moment. I told her there was something about her that made me automatically walk towards her and went from there. This was my first daygame hook. The opener was solid and because of the early kino, the angle I stood next to her (not in front of her!) and the eye contact (it had some sexual intent) made her attracted from the first second. We did chat some about what she does in life but she had to join some friends in a bar.

We walked further and eventually called Jaricho and ChanterPanther and told them to pull the girls, get their number or eject because we had to move on.

Time to head to a bar! Jaricho opened the only set there was, a group of 7 girls and 1 guy. I joined him as wing pretty fast and the rest joined soon. This set hooked. One girl had her birthday at midnight so she dared us to strip for her. We gave a preview and the rest would come later. Some girls got bored so I started gaming every girl so the rest could game their targets. The hottest of the group already had a boyfriend so I turned to winging even more. My goal was to get us to the place they where going. This was going to be somewhat of a challenge. We where no students anymore but a studentcard was needed. Eventually they left and we just mingled with them and went to the same place, where they got in way too fast to take advantage of. Luckily the cashiers where girls and with some game and bluff about the birthday we had to attent we got in.

We didn't want to be needy so we just started dancing on our own in the almost empty club. Around 1:00 AM it started to be crowded with a positive girl to guy ratio. The daygame warmup had me in state already so opening wasn't that hard. I started to feel the social high and walked around giving high fives, opening guys and girls left and right. This plowing got me even more in state and felt entitlement. Because of that I started to use Command and Challenge. That was a huge DHV and girls started to listen and be more playfull towards me. I had chemistry with 3 girls but they had boyfriends even though they where open for heavy kino. I put my arm around them and pulled their bodies against mine. I normally only do this when I have a hook for sure but this time I took risk and it payed off.

Feeling that risk pays off I wanted to take more risk and try new things, it was time for "The Claw". My first attempt was half assed and the girl just wandered off. ChanterPanther was up close and laughed at me which was a motivational to try it again but with confidence. The next try was the beginning of a new era, insta hook and I pulled her body against mine for extreme kino. While this feels like a high risk move it turned out to not be high risk for me. All girls accepted it and now I've internalised this move.

We all got in state like crazy and started walking around the whole club, clawing every girl, doing the hand of god everywhere and dancing our asses off with girls. Didn't score but really got comfortable with taking risks and doing things out of my comfort zone.

Lessons learned:

  • My new found inner peace in daygame and nice approach technique
  • Question openers like: "Where can we go out?" Won't get you anywhere.
  • Openers like: "Where are you going?" and ""What are you doing?" will get you somewhere.
  • Gaming a group and keeping every girl entertained can get you into new places
  • Move slow to project confidence
  • Get physical asap! This will amp up or spark attraction and projects your value.
  • Command and Challenge - Changed my game big time
  • The Claw - It's a lifestyle
  • Taking risks can pay off