How to get over the fact that your girl has fucked other dudes

Psychological_Radish · 2018-10-19T18:19:03+00:00

The reason why you can't accept this is that you fear you're not as good as those other guys. That's why there's a minority of morons on this forum who idolize virgins. They know they aren't Alphas and can't compete, so they have to lock down a "pure" girl and keep her in the dark about the pleasures of good dick (which doesn't work anyway).

Few girls past 20 have never taken a cock. You can't control that. But what you can control is the value of YOUR cock compared to the rest. Believe me, you will know when a girl perceives as the best dick she's taken, even if she's taken a dozen before you.

Ronaldo-CR7- · 2018-10-19T17:55:12+00:00

She’s not yours. It’s just your turn. Enjoy & move on. If you want a virgin find a virgin

menial_optimist · 2018-10-19T19:05:39+00:00

It's raw insecurity, nothing more. She's with and fucking you now, so enjoy yourself.

BuckNekkid18 · 2018-10-19T18:21:13+00:00

The same way she accepts that you've fucked other girls. It doesn't matter and just accept their slutty nature, just don't be a cuck about it.

[deleted] · 2018-10-19T18:45:59+00:00

This has always been difficult for me too. My LTR's n-count besides me is only 2 (3 with oral) and it still can bother me. Personally I get over it by the fact that she was fat then and is hot as fuck now, so they didn't get the sex with her that I get. But also, you gotta just realize they're people too and people fuck. Increase your own n-count so hers seems lesser in comparison or just find a virgin. I always wanted a virgin but never found one, so I'll take a girl with an n-count of 2 when mines almost 20 any day lol

btrpb · 2018-10-19T17:52:05+00:00

Just face up to it, every pussy you plough, has been filled up with cum a hundred or thousand times before whilst that girl cries out the other guys name. Don't try and hide it. Flood your mind with it. Exposure therapy. And then forget about it. When you've got a woman in bed, enjoy the moment. When she's not with you you shouldn't be thinking about her to much. You should be busy on your mission.

Ironic_Gangster · 2018-10-19T21:28:34+00:00

You don't. It's natural to feel this way. We men have been evolutionarily programmed to be very uncomfortable with our woman having sex with other guys, even if it's in the past. It's a natural cuckold defense built into us. Any guy who denies feeling this way is lying. If it's that bad, go meet a girl who's not such a whore.

Don't reward women who have exhibited low value behavior with your resources. Value yourself, what you have to offer and find a girl that doesn't make you this uncomfortable. But also, realize that she probably feels the same way about you fucking other girls. No one likes to hear about their partner having sex with other people. No one.

wanker7171 · 2018-10-19T18:02:46+00:00

It doesn’t even matter anyway, the idea that she is any different because of it is just part of women’s culture of slut shaming each other.

MisterRoid · 2018-10-19T19:45:41+00:00

I don't think much about it. I expect girls to have had sex with other men before me. If I find out a woman has been defiled by a black man I find her disgusting, though.

Incodicent · 2018-10-19T19:24:34+00:00

In her frame 🤣😂🤣😂

Title	How to get over the fact that your girl has fucked other dudes
Author	Kennigmatic
Upvotes	2
Comments	30
Date	October 19, 2018 5:46 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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