I discovered seddit 5 days ago.

But first, backstory: I started hooking up with this young cute girl at my work. Thing is, I was informed by a coworker that she thought I was hot. So I had that advantage. I wasn't usually that good with women. I was good to her and we hooked up. Then I was weird, and awkward, and she got bored and our sexual relationship abruptly halted. I hadn't been laid in a long time, and I was looking forward to hooking up with her more. Then I fucked it up. I was pissed.

I was tired of just running into girls who came onto me. I decided I had to learn how to approach women and seduce them.

At first, I asked friends. Some had some good advice, but even some of the more successful guys said they just kinda walked into it.

Then I searched "seduction" on reddit. I had no idea there was a whole community dedicated to this skill. I became addicted, reading late into the night. I focused on, and quickly implemented 1)Inner game, and alpha mindset 2)Body Language 3)Observing IOIs 4)Eye contact 5)Kino 6)Approach Anxiety

I decided I will approach 2 women per day, and conversate with them. Yesterday, I walked up to two girls on the street and asking them what they thought of my headphones. The goal here was just to get over approaching a girl, trying out an opinion opener, however pointless. Today, at the airport, I walked up to a girl at sat next to her, with confidence and eye contact and BL, and just talked to her until we boarded. Then, at baggage claim, I started talking to this girl who was waiting for her bags. I talked to her until we got our bags and left. She touched me on the back and said bye when she left.

I'm over approach anxiety. I've got my BL down.

I'm far from a master. But I'm on the way.

Thank you, seddit. (Esp. TofuTofu)