(FR)* first post and questions. F-Closed a random girl at a party in a round about way and am seeiking insight, guidance, advice, explanation.

-ATown · 2013-05-27T06:01:50+00:00

My observation: you weren't like every other guy that presumably stops after telling her "You're not a bitch and no one hates you." You continued with some insight on why the she is the way she is, called her a fuck-up and followed with calling her on being a felon, all without apologizing. Like a boss. You then found a connection between the two of you that most likely created even more tension. When she gets insecure, you shoot that shit down by letting her know how much of an HB9 she really is. You are up front (and direct) in what you want (a kiss), and when she resists, you take charge and solve the problem. Again, like a boss. Well done.

ThrowawayPUA · 2013-05-27T02:36:12+00:00

LOL you remind me of a talk Tyler gave, he said he had a girlfriend that just broke up with an abusive guy. She was used to being insulted and berated constantly, so when he complimented her, she froze up and became distant. So he decided he had to turn his compliments into insults, like "If I say you're beautiful, then you'll have to FUCKING DEAL WITH IT!"

I think I inadvertently did this with a woman at work. She was on the science team, I was on the math team. I told her we had an opening, she should join our team since we had more work hours available and thus more money to be made. She deferred and said "Oh no, I know my limits, my math isn't good enough." I got angry and told her, "Your math is just fine. What happened, did someone tell you that you weren't good at math and you BELIEVED THEM? If you qualified for a job on the science team, you're a genius by any standard, and perfectly well qualified to do the math job." You should have seen the look on her face. She was standing there with her mouth open, and then I ran off. It looked like I stormed off, but I was just in a hurry because I was already late coming back from break before I talked to her. Anyway, she sort of attached herself to me, she was obviously attracted and we became inseparable.

Title	(FR)* first post and questions. F-Closed a random girl at a party in a round about way and am seeiking insight, guidance, advice, explanation.
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Date	May 26, 2013 11:33 PM UTC (13 years ago)
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