Me and a friend where bartenders at a pretty big private birthday party. Most people where around 30 y/o. We had a blast with the guests. One girl hb9, easily the hottest woman at the party, came and ordered something. And the way she looked at me and my friend when she ordered her drink was flirty, with a big smile. My friend said she is definitely single. After a while she came back and I started to be flirty and teasing her. She played along and teased me back. After a while she came back again for more drinks and same stuff happened again. This time me and my bartender friend where talking to her. She then said she had a boyfriend and a baby. I would never had guessed it. Later on the evening I walked around with drinks on the dance floor. I walked up to her and she imediately started to tease me and she started kino. Draged my arm, took my nose etc, than she drahed herself into me whispered something in my ear which i dont really remember what she said. I then continued delivering drinks.

I had one or two more interactions with her and we both teased each other. She was drunk but not super drunk. The night ended and nothing happened.

Whats interested her. I am 20, she was 26. And i'm not looking like a baby but i'm not looking like i'm 30. Have little beard etc. My bartender buddy is 27 and he is much taller than me, im 5'4.. We are both well groomed , good clothes and works out. But she clearly interacted with me and not him, she didnt tease anyone else at the party what I could she, eventhough she was talking to a hanful of dudes during the evening.

Now to the question. Why did she do this and what was her objective?

In my opinion, if she where happy with her boyfriend at home she shouldn't have interacted that way. It felt like she was looking for an alpha. Like hypergamy in it's true form. But then she shouldn't have chosen me. I've pretty alpha, hold my frame all the time etc, but anyway.

However, maybe she just enjoyed flirting with me for the sake of it. Cuz i did experience any shittests. Im young and dont have a lot of experience with women, maybe im really missing something here.

What do you think?