When you go out to the bar/club/etc. and become part of the nightlife, I'm hoping you aren't one of those guys that stands in the corner or against the wall with your drink next to your buddies and not saying much except pointing out girls you think are attractive and then doing nothing about it. The term for this is called "Death Row" according to the pua community.

When I'm at the bar with my friends (always at least 2 with me), I'm constantly laughing at jokes and comments while making my own. You don't need to be witty or a world renowned comedian. Honestly, you don't even need to be fucking funny. Everything is funnier at the bar. You're drinking some liquid courage, you're shooting the shit, you're relaxed, and more importantly you're having a good time. I laugh at everything and people notice the great time you're having.

From a personal account, I was doing just that this past Friday. In the middle of one of my sentences I have my arm grabbed and pulled to the dance floor by a girl and we start dancing/making out. After about 15 minutes I regroup with my friends. They high five me and I asked them if they paid her to do that, because I literally had to do nothing. She came to me.

Isn't that really all we're taught here? Have a good time and people will notice. They'll want to become part of your good time. I always like to think my group of friends and I have a gravitational pull. Guys and girls always approach and suddenly become part of our group.

Don't keep walking around the bar constantly and looking for the fun...pick a spot, post up for a while, and start the fun right fucking there.

Enjoy, gentleman.