Second FR, let me know if you think anything could be improved upon.
Flash back a few weeks ago - I met this cute girl (HB 8), had a good conversation for a while, but she left with friends before I could get her number.
Well, this Friday I happened to see the same girl out. It had been a pretty relaxed night and I was having fun with my friends, so I wasn't too concerned about approaching right away. However, about 15 minutes after arriving we made eye contact from a ways away and I made sure to jump at the opportunity. I walked up and struck up a casual conversation. We talk a bit and I brought up the kino throughout the conversation. I thought I was doing a pretty good job with the kino, but she had no response to it. None. At one point I wondering if she even felt my hand on the small of her back! I was pretty confused by the complete lack of response. Usually you can tell if you're doing good or bad, but I got absolutely nothing from reading this girl. I was about to give up but figured 'hey, if she wanted me gone she'd let me know' and assumed that she was still interested.
We talked for another five or so minutes and I decided head back to my friends, saying that I needed to check up on them to make sure they weren't getting into too much trouble. I get back and my buddies are just heading out to go to another bar. I tell them to wait five minutes and head back to ask the girl if she and her friends wanted to come along. They agree and off we all go.
Then the next part goes pretty fast - we leave to walk to the other bar, me and her trail behind the group a bit, and she tugs on my shirt and asks if I want to go back to her place. I'm taken a back a bit, but quickly agree. From there it was pretty normal and we had a great night!
We then got talking in the morning and I mentioned how she wasn't like other girls because she was so hard to read. She laughed then said that she didn't want to be like every other girl and purposefully tried to not seem so.
It all made sense in the end - she was interested but didn't show it because she didn't want to be judged as just another girl. I think this really helped me solidify that there will be girls who will be very unique, for better or worse, when you're out. It's just up to me to roll with it, try my best, and have a good time.
TL,DR; Got no response to kino, it threw me off a bit but I still assumed attraction. Turned out she was loving it but purposefully didn't show it and we ended up having a great night.
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