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I feel as that a lot of you could learn from this experience, and the advice I seek.

Before you read. Just know that I am not asking for beginner advice so read through.

Little background. I have been casually dating her for almost 2 months.

So I met this girl. I knew she was interested, so I got her number. We hung out, she would not put out for a couple outings. Which made me think about why that is. I figured she was a virgin for reasons not to be explained. Turned out she was. I did not ask her she told me when we were going at it. She was surprised I did not freak out. I told her it was up to her if she wanted to seal the deal. She obliged.

Now the kind of outings I take her on are not just any normal dates. I bring this girl to abandoned buildings, hiking, and mostly adventures. There have been no al dates, picnic adventures, I cook for her, ect ect... I am a very spontaneous person when I am with a pretty girl I like, there is no way she gets bored when we are doing stuff. I bite her when I want, grab her ass when I want, playfully push her when I want, ect.. ect. She has told me I keep her on her toes.

She shit tests. I catch the obvious ones, liker saying my hobbies are weird, I am weird, acting uninterested... I may have missed some but I doubt it. there have been bigger shit tests like one time. We were exploring an abandoned building and we met this dude and we split up for about an hour I was doing my own thing... climbing shit, and taking picture. When we got out she told me she got to talk to him and it was so cool haha. So I say oh yeah? With the biggest smile on my face and she says yeah and changes subjects. This is were it gets good. She was with this guy, and my roommate the entire time I was away. my roomate/good friend told me after that she was quieter than normal when they were without me.

last shit test was when we were hanging out in my room before an adventure she told me about this guy that asked for her number, she said she gave it to him, and he wanted to smoke with her. She then tells me he said it really weirdly with slang and lingo. She asked me to look at it and tell her what it meant. I was busy changing my shirt and getting my camera ready so I said hold on. She asked for me to look twice and was going to but we started talking about something else, and I/we forgot.

This is where I need advice

She is always smiling, and laughing when we are together.

She has texted me before saying let's go wreck havoc.

She has said how it is so cool that we have not grown up in the same high school.

I do not know the word for this, but she will always ask if something is alright or ask if I like this or that...

She has texted during sex when when she was on top.

She will check her phone and when it is in front of me I can see she has no texts. I know she is not looking at the time, for shes a watch.

So I expressed interest in a relationship a little bit ago, she kind of dodged answering it. But then told me that her parents want to meet me because her parents know all of her friends. Then said but it is okay if you do not want to. I said I would. So that will happen. She than said that she doesn't want anything bad to happen because I am not friends with most of my exes. I took all of that as she just wants to be friends with sex. Although she did not say this.

So she is out of town and she wants to take me to an event she got free tickets to when she gets back.

It really frustrated me when she did not give me any answer.

So I have what I am going to say to her and I am going to say it to her. But I do not know the best time to say it. Like right when we meet up, after the event and shenanigans. Or wait a couple days. She will be back in a week. So the situation could change?

Here is what I am going to tell her in person

Blank we need to talk. I feel like I am your tour bus guide that you are using to gain new experiences, including sex. Do not get me wrong though. Sex between us is good, and there is so many more sexual endeavors I want to have with you... Before I go any further, I want you to know something about me. When I meet a pretty girl I either want to have sex with her. Or date her. Or have nothing to do with her. It is very rare me to want two of those from someone. I have not had all three emotions yet. Now back to why all of this is relevant. On (date) before you left for (blank) I expressed interest in a relationship. Ia that correct? I have the impression you want to be friends. Which is okay with me. (It really is not... But it will be my shit test). It really frustrates me that I do not understand your response. I want to know your opinion on this situation.

Sooooo too much? Not enough? Changes? Don't do it? Opinions? Advice?

Ask for anymore information you need to make a thorough comment/response

Thank you seddit. I read your guys stuff and reply with my insight I hope you guys can do the same.