She's into me. She's cute, smart, but not my type. I am a bit lonely, but not so lonely as to embarrass myself, as I have in the past. Not sure what to do.

anon404 · 2013-06-19T18:24:07+00:00

The best way to handle this is to do exactly what you would do if you had lots of women chasing after you. Remember, dude. Abundance mentality will lead to abundance, scarcity mentality will lead to scarcity. You gotta be nice but not make a move. Friendzone her. Bring her to clubs and have her wing for you. Make it clear you want to be her friend. FWB is for little personal/mental attraction and lots of physical attraction, Friends is for more mental attraction and little physical attraction, and relationships is for the whole package of attraction.

Do what's right, man. You'll be happy you did when she introduces you to her hot and smart friends.

puaCurveBall · 2013-06-19T19:57:54+00:00

This belongs in /r/askseddit as it is asking advice for a specific situation / girl

This will stay in spam filter, please repost in the AskSeddit subreddit.(Not askREDDIT, but askSEDDIT) Please read RULES & GUIDELINES. This post is answered by many SIDEBAR guides.

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Also, don't worry about it! You didn't do anything wrong since you didn't know

GreaterThanAFC · 2013-06-19T18:16:41+00:00

Never reciprocate if you don't like her. You don't have any true feelings towards this woman, so you're only going to end up hurting her. Remember "leave a woman better than you found her", and if you date and dump, you're not doing the above.

Let her know so she can move on with her life, just like you should move on with yours.

Cylindral · 2013-06-19T18:28:14+00:00

However, I have no desire to invite her to do anything with me, or for me to initiate anything with her.

Then don't. Just because she is interested doesn't make you obligated to indulge her. Find someone who likes you that YOU like to fill that lonely void.

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