Hey guys! 4th cold approach ever! Lately my inner game has been really fucking good, and approaches are becoming so much easier. I no longer sweat like a mother fucker, and i'ts starting to feel so natural. About this approach in particular, she had a boyfriend, and i could have played it better to get her number or at least give her mine, so it turned out into just a really interesting chat that helped time go by on the subway.

FR: I was waiting for the subway, and as usual, i was also scouting for possible approaches. I spotted a HB7.5 and i "eye stabbed" her as she walked by, she did notice me but did not make any IOI. I continued to eye stab her (this is becoming my trade mark) looking for any possible IOI's so the approach becomes less of a cold approach, but she just continued to listen to her MP3 player. I started to think that it was over, that i was already way to inside of my head for me to grow balls and go talk to her.

The subway came and i sat right next to her, so that in a way is was forcing myself to approach her. I started to get inside my head more and more, but then i said FUCK IT!!!!! I opened with just a tap on her shoulder and a gesture for her to get rid of her giant headphones.

She did and i went: "Excuse me, but if don't talk to you i'm going to be kicking my self in the head for the entire day, would you tell me a bit about yourself?"

HB7.5: "Yes, but what do you want me to tell you?"

ME: "I don't know, i just wanted to know if you were as interesting as you look"

HB7.5: but i have a boyfriend.

ME: that's ok we can talk as long as he is not here, right?

HB7.5: yeah, but do you wanna talk about?

ME: you can begin telling me what you study.

Here we started talking. In the middle of the conversation a really loud music band entered the subway, so i told her she could go on listening her music if she wanted, because it was impossible to talk. After the band was gone, i told her "Well you didn't really miss anything interesting" and we started talking again. It was a really interesting chat. Turned out we had a hell of a fucking lot in common.

In retrospective, there are a couple of things i would change. Before i left i asked her about her boyfriend and she told me that she had been with him for almost 2 years. I joked about it, asking if she was satisfied or not and she didn't really answer the question but was cool with it, so i think i could have thrown my cellphone number in and she would have taken it, maybe even asked for hers. When i kissed her goodbye (in the cheek) she said "See you" to which i replied "Yeah right" and she laughed. The thing about being informed of the boyfriend situation right off the bat is that it really puts me down. It's like as soon as she mentions it, my GAME SELF just goes into my normal self and i'm not able to create as much sexual tension.

Well thanks for reading. I know this was not the usual FR where a guy goes into a bar and gets mollested (just kidding) by three HB9 and then gets home with a HB8.5 to make lovely sex, but i don't go out clubbing, sorry :)