First of all, i would like to say that Seddit is fantastic, amazing information on here regarding inner game, direct game and improving your overall social dynamic skills; most of all it's not about seeking validation from outside of yourself.
However what does this say about our society, that men are having to seek advice from the internet and books on how to behave and act in a way which should really be natural to us.
First of all, Il tell you my story, I am 21 years old, currently a student but all round renaissance man; I have a big interest in politics, anthropology, philosophy. I was always aware at relatively young age, that the whole disney premise, of the nice guy getting the hot cheerleader was a fabrication. Those who were dominant, assertive, dynamic and confident would get the best women, best treatment overall by everyone; and they wouldn't necesserily be a good person; in fact many of these dynamic individuals i encountered in school or on the streets, personal life were actually assholes, however this didn't matter.
After looking into PUA mastery by a guy who was a living symbol of a master in social dynamics, it was made clear to me that this was purely a form of animal magnetism. The lies i was told at a young age of "begin nice to everyone" acting like a doormat, turning the over to the other cheek; and in general this feminist ideology that is permeated through school, media, general life, that women are both victims and goddesses that you need to make love to in order to reach man hood .... was absolutely self destructive.
It was a blessing revelation, and ever since i have understood the lies that have been fed to me, i became more dynamic, more confident; I had my first proper girlfriend, made mates with more dynamic characters, and I am currently on an adventure in the middle east.
It also made me incredibly upset, as it dawned on me, that those who are missing out on this, tend to be the sensitive, responsible males, who actually listen to the bullshit fed to you by feminist teachers, the media and other forms of modern western culture, which strives to make you feel guilty for acting out in a masculine manner.
Unlike our ancestors and males of cultures and civilisations of the past, they had a passage of manhood. For today's boys, their passage of manhood, is losing their virginity, again seeking validation and acceptance outside of themselves. This leads to boys failing to grow up into being men, and instead actually becoming virgins until way into their 20's and ending up hating women with a passion.
A big part of this has been the acceptance of feminism by the media, education, most institutions and the common woman (and in many cases now man).
The biological/social dynamics between man and woman, is not based on equality, like we are told. Briffaults law, of behavioural economics, shows that women in the pats and to this day have preferential treatment, because their uterus is in high demand, where as a male's sperm isn't in anyway possible. One egg and a thousand sperm, women are the creators of civilisations and populations because of their reproductive capabilities. Men haven't been able to fall back on this, so instead their side of the reproductive contract (if you will) is to make concessions.
Essentially society will encourage men and punish them if they fail to make these concessions, i.e. protect women, women and children go first blah blah.
However we are told the complete opposite of this natural truth, women are encouraged to be irresponsible with their ideal modern partners, which will be irresponsible males, who didn't listen to the feminist bullshit, which the responsible nice guy males listened to in school.
In the name of preserving this air of equality and self respect, which is non existent in today's world. the nice guys (responsible males) are the only ones buying it, and facing the brunt of it.
Without deviating, too much from the original point. Our modern day culture has made it very hard for alot of males out there, as it has denied them their natural right; if anything it has made them guilty to act out in a masculine way. I advise all those practicing seddit advice, too compare the male versus female relationship dynamic, to that of the wider society.
What i wish to see in the future, is the movement of developing inner game, social dynamics, gaining true inner confidence, being applied at a young age, teach this to your kids, campaign against curriculums or movements that seek to pressure cooker and turn genuine good guys into pathetic snivelling AFC's.
This is not even about getting laid anymore, this is about getting things done. Who pays the price of today's modern culture, the smart, responsible males, the geeks in school, or those who are more inclined to be sensitive. Give these boys the tools which seddit and other such fraternities can provide, so their genes, talents and drive doesn't go to waste and squander at the bottom of the gene pool !!!!
When i read many posts on here, from males who are becoming centres of magnetism and our actually making things happen in their lives, whether this be new hobbies, new hb10 girlfriends, new exciting careers. It truly makes me happy
On a side note, I am in the process with a couple of other PUA's, writing a book in regards to the destructive nature of feminism, critical theories, anti masculinity on the wider western civilisation. If you wish to get on board. Contact me ASAP via here.
Thanks for reading
Peace and Love
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