Last night was one of the happiest nights of my life. All I did was cuddle on the couch with my crush while we watched a movie. We also spent the night together in the same bed but nothing happened.

Anywho, this girl is the first girl I've ever regularly pursued. This was also the first night I'd ever cuddled with a girl. I didn't even kiss her, but we both agreed that we want to take it slow before we fell asleep (although that was more in reference to sex I believe). I know we're ready for that though, and I will immediately take the next opportunity that arrives. It sounds pathetic, but I spent a very large portion of my life in a shell and only just broke out last summer. So despite the seeming insignificance, I'm the happiest I've been in a long time, and last night was a land mark moment for me that has truly opened my eyes.

The reason I've come here is because I really just want to thank each and every member of this community. The sheer amount of information and advice on this between Seddit and the relationship communities is astounding. Seddit is something really special, and truly can have a huge impact on someone's life.

But in all honesty the thing that has helped me the most here over all else is the encouragement and acceptance of others. In all honesty, I rarely remembered the majority of the information I was picking up here when I would actually go out. But the frequently preached idea to just go out and have a good time has directly facilitated my natural ability to socialize and interact with women. And well at that.

While I really don't subscribe to the abundance mentality, I respect it so much. I love what it can do for a person and their confidence. But I'm starting to view it more as just one of many doors to becoming a better and more confident individual. It's all about staying positive and truly being confident. Whatever it takes, if you stay positive, confident, and hard working to make yourself high value, you will absolutely succeed, and I really see that now.

So apologies if you get enough of this, but I am so grateful for what is provided here at seddit. It's a shining example of how useful reddit can actually be if you just filter out the shit.