Let me clarify: This is actually my first post in a seduction-related subreddit. BUT I have been "in the game" so to speak for a long-ass time. I've always been pretty naturally good with women, but upon discovering the wealth of information on the subject out there, my game dramatically improved. Not to toot my own horn, but I do consider myself now, as far down the road as I am, to be very good at meeting and seducing women. But of course, there's always room for more improvement. For a little backround, I recently got out of a long-term relationship so my game's a little rusty. Since the relationship ended I've had K-closes with a couple different girls, nothing too serious.

Now down to the knitty gritty: I was at the public lake the other day for a swim (I ran down there for some exercise and hopped in to cool off). I'm standing on the dock preparing to flip myself into the water and here comes this gorgeous HB-8/9 walking towards me with her friend. I catch her eye, hold the eye contact for half a second longer than normal to send the message, throw her a little smirk, and go back to what I was doing.

From that moment, you could tell, it was ON man. You could just feel a shift in the air, haha or maybe I'm being dramatic... But from there there's some eye contact going back and forth, but we're both with out respective groups. Since I'm just now getting back into the dating pool, I feel just a bit of approach anxiety, which stalls me, but I get over it pretty quick. The approach comes when She's standing on the dock with her friend, and I'm pulling myself out of the water. Her friend is tightening her bikini for her, so I say "Bikini coming off?" She smiles as if she's glad I finally spoke to her, and she says "Yeah, don't you hate that?"

"Yeah definitely, I hate it when that happens to me." She laughs as if she hadn't just made the same joke.

From then on it's by the book. I get their names, escalate kino (there was even an instance where she pushed me into the water, so I got back out, picked her up and jumped in with her), and kept the flirting up. It was pretty damn fun, I gotta say.

As they were leaving, we were flirting a bit and she gave me her number. One last bit of kino- lightly touched her on the arm as I was saying goodbye- and she pulled me in for a hug. I thought that'd be the end of it until next time, but as I'm walking home she takes time to drive by me to say "See ya." All in all, I thought it was a pretty good Number-close.

I didn't make an attempt to contact her until the next day. Texted her at about 1:30 in the afternoon just letting her know it was me, and I haven't heard back. Now granted, it hasn't been that long since, but... This is just kind of unusual to me. Never really happens. There was one time a while back where a girl never really responded to my attempts to contact her, but she didn't seem NEARLY as interested as this girl.

I really would like to see her again; she was fun and easy going, and did I mention gorgeous? Thinking over the situation, there was really nothing I could see that I might have done to kill the attraction. I saw a comment on a recent Seddit post saying something about texting the girl immediately after you get their number (like, with them still standing there) with your name, or better yet calling them and, if they pick up, teasing them about this cute girl that just gave their number. I definitely wish I'd thought of this, it would have been killer! :D I usually like to be the one to get girls' numbers instead of giving mine to them, thanks to this run-in with a less than sane girl a few years back who would text me almost 100 times a day.

Anyway, what are your thoughts and advice on this? Sorry for the long post, it's just, like I said, a pretty confusing situation to me. It's not something I run into very often. Have any of you had similar situations? What was the cause of yours and did you do anything besides shrugging it off and moving on to the next?