I work at an all boys summer camp and I met a Cute british counselor about a week ago who I f-closed the other day. This is an interesting story because she's one of 3 girls out of about 100 counselors that work there. I'm gonna just write a few sections that talk about each encounter, what I did at each one and how I escalated to finish with an f-close.
Encounter 1 I had seen her around the campus a few times and every time exchanged a look, smile, and a few words about the day. My intentions here were to portray myself as a crazy/fun guy who had a lot to talk about. This happened a few times and I could tell she was interested but it wasn't appropriate for me to be touchy or have long conversations since I was around kids all day. I just kept it really casual and friendly knowing that I was going to have to escalate quickly when I had an opportunity to see her when kids weren't around.
Encounter 2 I had a night off last Wednesday and made plans to go see a movie with a few other people I had been talking to. It turned out that she had also been invited (I didn't actually invite her myself). I had offered to drive and nothing really important happened until we got to my car. As soon as I made eye contact with her on the way to the car I gave her a huge hug and said that it was great to see her. This was very important because it showed her that I was interested. Since I was driving I offered her shotgun so I could talk to her on the way and set things up for her sitting next to me at the movie. We did normal getting to know you conversation on the way there with the occasional flirty comment. We had a lot of time to kill so we played some pool and got some ice cream with the group of people. At this point I had been talking to her a lot and decided to back off and talk to some of the people in the group. This was a good opportunity to do some push-pull. Exchanging the occasional eye contact and smile with her. I was just having a great time and continuing to show her and everyone that I was fun to be around. She sat down right next to me in theater and I used this as an opportunity to use lots of kino and escalate a little bit. Holding hands/holding her leg. She also put her head on my shoulder (huge IOI). If we weren't with a group of people I would have definitely kissed her during the movie but obviously decided not to.
Encounter 3 Nothing else special happened after the movie, I decided once again to push away a bit and let her come to me, which she did do multiple times. We had to ride a shuttle from the parking lot to the main campus and she sat right next to me. She grabbed my hand and leaned on me. Classic example of push-pull. It was getting late and at this point it was really obvious she wanted to at least kiss me since she said she didn't want to sleep yet (another huge IOI). So we walked to a little field and started hooking up. We wen't into a bathroom and actually got caught so I didn't f-close during this encounter. What I did do was show my value, escalate, kino, and make her comfortable.
Encounter 4 For a few days nothing happened since I was around kids and had no way to text her since she didn't have a phone. Unfortunately since we got caught there was no chance to make plans for another go so I had to make sure I didn't lose her interest. I again saw her randomly and gave her a wave/smile blah blah blah. What I had to do here was not change the way I was around her while around kids as to not make things awkward at all and show her that I was mature enough to handle a secret hook up kind of thing. I had a chance to find her and exchange a few words last monday. It was during the day so I told her to come find me after I put my kids to sleep. She managed to find me at the lounge where we proceeded to go to her room and finish the deed.
This was my first FR and I hope it was helpful for you guys. I'm still just an amateur at PUA and figured that writing my first FR would be good for me, especially after having been in a dry spot since the winter. If you think anything was unclear or unnecessary please let me know and I can edit it/answer questions you have.
Thanks!
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