Hey guys,

I did my first re-approach on a girl that I saw on the dance floor. My buddy and I like to dance electro at this club that drops a lot of electro/house. This really attractive girl in a black dress and heels walks up to us and asks me if I'm going to the veldt music festival in toronto.

We start bantering about electronic music and what not. I started right away by holding her hips while she and I were conversing. I should of grabbed her closer to me at this point and start dancing with her but I was really stuck in my head. Her friend points to a different location and they walk away after 10 minutes. I felt as if I had really strong vibes with her (she even waved at me with strong eye contact as she left).

About 10 minutes later I see her walking around on the dance floor, and the club was going to close in 15 minutes. I thought to myself 'if i don't approach her again and ask for dance, I'm an idiot. As she walks by, i tap her shoulder and she makes eye contact with me as her eyes light up. I grab her right by the waist and pull her closer and say 'if i didn't get to dance with you tonight, I'd be kicking myself'. I get her name and we talk a little and straight grinding (face forward).

After 10 minutes of this, this guy starts pointing towards her (her friend) and tries to call her over and grab her hand. At this point he's pulling her away physically and I instantly think about what tyler/Julien would do in a situation like this. Never have been super physical before so I thought why not just try it. I grab her other hand and keep pulling her till the guy let's go. She comes back into my arms. Now her friend comes up and starts to gently pull her hand and I yell at her 'No! She's mine! You can't have her'. She gets surprised and asks 'can I please have her back'. I'm guessing at this point the girl felt as if she was on the spot and finally agreed to leave with her friend.

I saw her again 2 more times but didn't approach her again (I wanted to get her number).

Do you guys this i should of approached her again for the 3rd time and gotten her number? She probably would of given it to me, but I just couldn't do it.

In the end though, I'm starting to push myself more and more and learning new reference points. It's feels pretty good.