Hey guys, i posted this here because maybe some of you have gone through something similar.

29M here. I used to be outgoing, positive energy kind of guy. Until i got into a relationship that basically fucked me up and turned me into an AFC. After the breakup i started to lift weights, do crossfit and eat Paleo, so i became pretty fit. My sense of fashion is ok and i consider myself a good looking guy. I have a job in financial consulting that i enjoy. I am also a musician, although i stopped playing the guitar because i felt so depressed that literally nothing came out, after the breakup i just couldn't play anymore.

I have been reading Seddit since a friend of mine lent me The Game by Neil Strauss, which i read 3 times in order to try to internalize it. But i haven't taken the step, i've done some approaches but the inner voice is always there to fuck with me -they won't listen, you'll get rejected and will stay alone-. Because of this i spent more and more nights without leaving the flat; now i can't stand it anymore, i know i need to get out of my flat, my head and just go and have some fun, but at the same time it seems i forgot how to.