First up - I don't like using the terminology in the title, I don't know why, it's just not me. But this post is for you guys. I was just having a good time in between seeing old friends on my holiday! I'm a pretty attractive guy, albeit weighing a hefty 65kg and standing 6"1' tall. I was never a confident kid. I am these days though. I'm 21 this year. I read "The Game" a few months ago. Interesting read, I'd recommend it.

This will be a quick run down of the last 10 days, as it's near my bed time. Constructive criticism is most welcome.

I flew in to town Friday night. Met a few mates at one of their ex's house party. (They're recently separated, but still great friends) My mate went home, I chatted with the drunk ex for a while to find out what happened (I didn't see it coming). I digress. She admitted she'd have sex with me if her ex and I weren't best mates. I said I wouldn't for that reason. Note I hadn't been flirting, no kino, and I was dressed poorly. This acted as a bit of a confidence booster for the rest of the week I think.

Saturday - Went to a party, met a redhead [7] and a blonde [8]. The blonde showed keen interest in my stories, leaning forward, keeping the conversation going. I told her about my favourite adventures, then we talked about her recent overseas trip. Played pool with the blonde, then her attention was taken by another guy. Later, I asked her and the redhead to play doubles pingpong with my mate and I. Hilarity ensued. There was no score. Before I left, a few of us were out the front, taking turns riding this guys electric skateboard. In front of a few people I asked if she liked salmon. She replied 'yes'.

"Good. I'm cooking for a few friends Wednesday night; you should come. I haven't quite organised it yet, so I'll have to let you know the details"

Here I handed her my phone, with the keypad open. She smiled, and didn't hesitate. She ended up texting me Wednesday lunchtime, explaining she didn't feel comfortable having dinner with a group of people she doesn't know. She could hang out another time if I was free. I wasn't though. Fair enough I said. I've made a friend anyway.

Friday night - Went to my best mates 21st. Walked his newly single/it's complicated cousin (Let's call her Amanda,23y/o, blonde [7]) to the venue, making sure she didn't fall on uneven ground in her heels. We've met a few times before. She was amazed at what I thought should be common courtesy. One of her relatives thought I was the new boyfriend. I probably made a suggestive joke... but I can't remember. We finished a $900 bar tab that night.

For the last hour or so I was talking to a brunette (Stacey)[8]. She could hold a great conversation between asking me to come out tonight every few minutes. A friend pulled me aside and explained she was 11 out of 10 keen for me. I had noticed when I asked for gum and she offered me the piece in her mouth. Amanda could see us though, and I was staying at the same place as her that night, so I walked Stacey outside for some vague reason (or none at all I think? She hesitated, until I just walked off, and she followed. It worked!) We kissed quite passionately for 2 minutes, then went back inside. Her friend said their lift was near, so I asked for her number, and off she went, pleading with me to go to a club full of scumbags right till the end. The party wound down, and then shifted to my mate's place. Amanda was ready to go to bed first. She came down to say goodnight to everyone. I loosened my tie, leaving the knot in, and put it on her. Everyone else left/went to bed. I get out of the shower to find a text from an unknown number, it read "I have ur tie coz its awesome. Night!"

I'm not sure who she got my number off...

I agreed, and said it would've been my pleasure to take her ice skating tomorrow, shame she was busy.

Amanda -"Awww ur too cute"

Amanda (again)- "Tryingbto sleep but being drunk nd beung able to sleep doesn't work"

(I think we had about the same amout of wine that night hahah)

Me - "A kiss on the cheek and a quick back/foot rub would send you to sleep pretty quick :)"

her - "Don't tempt me :p"

So I did. I knocked on her door, shirtless, and she let me in. We spooned and I massaged her, then I put her face down and gave her a proper back rub. We had some great cuddles, but she hesitated, and pulled away at the last moment when we were about to kiss, she I pecked her on the cheek. Cuddles continued. She told me she was very tempted, but can't. Eventually I got kicked out before she'd change her mind! I got a slap on the arse as I left!

Saturday night - Took Stacey out for dinner, then got a bit passionate in the car. She couldn't go to hers, then said she wouldn't go to mine because I "wanted to fuck her". Her words. Pretty accurate though. She didn't know me, was her reason. I was okay with that. We talked for a few hours being incredibly open about private matters, with a bit of kissing/feeling at random moments. I sucked one boob, massaged the other, and rubbed her clit. Fun. She made me download the snapchat app. We've sent more than a dozen cheeky/sexy photos to each other in the past 2 days.

Sunday - My housemate picked me up from the airport and brought a girl she's been trying to set me up with (Amy, 26y/o, brunette, 7). Two weeks prior I tried to have her over for dinner about 4 times, but work kept changing plans on me and I couldn't make it home.

I digress.

We watched a movie at my house (fired up), then made it to the bedroom for cuddles and a get to know each other chat. She got a massage, then it wasn't hard to tempt her much the same as I did to Amanda. She pulled away, and said she didn't know me (well we did meet 3 hours prior)

She went home soon after she got caught up in the moment and started grinding against me, underneath me. The next night she came out for pizza (a double date!)

I explained that I couldn't get up to mischief tonight because I had to get up early for work. (then the boss called, and said I could leave home at 6am for an 8am start, instead of a 6am start)

Of course she wanted to now that I said I couldn't. We went to bed soon after we got to my house and finished talking with the housemate. We enjoyed being cute and cuddling, but shit got real after the first kiss. I feigned indecision, and she said we're both adults, and single, it should be okay. I think she was convincing herself more than anything. We had sex. After a week of being teased, and no time to relieve the pressure, how was I supposed to last more than 5 minutes? This is why we foreplay! Glad we teased each other for 2 hours prior. I nearly had a few micro-sleeps on my way to work this morning. Scary. Not worth it!

It's 11:49pm here, and I get up just before 5am. Sorry if it's a bit of a long-winded ramble. Thanks for reading :) Edit for formatting.