So a girl I've had a huge crush since 2009 is single and so am I! I usually don't have a problem approaching women, but she is special. We aren't close friends and we've never hung out really. But we do train MMA together. I've always felt a connection with her and the other day I walked into the bar that she works. Now I haven't seen her in quite awhile. She came right up to me and took over my table from another waiter. She sat down and we talked for a couple minutes then she asked if I was still with "that redhead"? That took me back because she's only met my ex once a year ago in the mall for two seconds. So my question is, should I go for it? And how should I approach her?