Long time lurker posting here for the first time after an amazing night. Apologies in advance for the enormous post.

Some background info: I'm a 20-year old Korean-American student who hasn't had much success with women in the past couple of years. After learning about seddit through a few of my friends, I started to lightly read the content here and tried to apply it to my everyday life, but mostly ended up with really awkward/terrible flirting.

Last night, I went to see the Hardwell perform in SF. I've been to a couple of raves before, but all my previous approaches had failed miserably. I decided to just go to the club with the intent of having fun instead of getting caught up with the end goal of whether I got to hook up with a girl or not. When we got inside, there were a ton of HB6s-9s and I started to feel a bit anxious, but I decided to just delve into the crowd and start dancing. The opening DJ was playing some really good stuff and I was really feeling the vibe.

I noticed that a group of HB6s and HB7s were dancing next to me, but I didn't really pay much attention to them. After a few minutes, I made eye contact with one of the HB7s when she suddenly approached me and asked "Are you having a good time?" I was taken by surprise because girls rarely ever approach me, but I keep my cool and replied with an enthusiastic "Yeah!" She introduced me to her friends and we keep dancing as the energy in the club really started to rise. A really good song came on, so I decided to just suck it up and ask her to dance. She smiled and hesitated for a moment, but then agreed. We only danced for a few songs but I gained an incredible swell of confidence. She eventually turned around and gave me a tight hug before we parted ways.

I headed up closer to the front stage and reunited with one of the bros I came in with. I started dancing and enjoying myself again and after about half an hour of dancing, one of the girls in front of me suddenly turned around and made eye contact with me. I managed to hold eye contact and smile at her; she was a gorgeous white girl, easily an HB8. She immediately approached me and we exchanged names. Let's call her C. C separated from her group and continued to dance next to me while we talked. I figure at this point, she was definitely interested in me, so I asked her if she wanted to dance. She gave me this incredibly sexy stare and whispered in my ear "You bet I do." This girl was an amazing dancer and I took advantage of the situation to rapidly escalate kino. After a while though, her group found her and started to pull her away. She clearly didn't want to leave and even told her friends "it's okay!" but they ended up taking her upstairs to drink some more. I decide to let her go without too much resistance, but before she left, C grabbed me by the face and gave me a hot kiss.

I'm feeling incredible at this point, and to top it off, Hardwell finally came onstage. The entire club was going nuts and best of all, C returned without her friends only a little while after she had left. I immediately pulled her in and we started dancing again. After grinding for about half an hour or so, I turned her around and we started making out like crazy. Sadly, her friends returned AGAIN and pulled her away. This pattern repeated a couple more times until finally, her friends stopped trying to pull her away. We ended up dancing together until the night ended and somewhere in-between, I handed her my phone to get her number. I gave her one last goodbye kiss before we finally parted ways.

I feel like what really worked that night was the fact that I wasn't focused on hooking up with girls, I was just having a good time. Once girls saw the fun vibe I was giving off, they seemed to just naturally approach me. I definitely could've been more assertive in following up, but hey, baby steps.

One thing I regret not doing was introducing myself to the people in C's group. If I had maybe shown them I'm a chill guy, they might not have tried so hard to pull her away and I would've had more time with her to myself.

Also, that theory that white girls don't go for asian guys? BULLSHIT.

TL;DR Went to the club just trying to have a good time solo, ended up K-closing and #-closing a gorgeous HB8