I have issues with girls. If I don't find them attractive, I am totally fine. But if I start thinking, "hey, I wouldn't mind fucking you," I get nervous and I am so afraid of making the wrong move and fucking up, that I just end up being this socially retarded, not even myself, self. I am getting a little better by reading Models, and realizing I need to be honest and vulnerable. But I still get very nervous and care too much about what to say to get these girls.

What should I do to change my outlook? I'm not necessarily wanting to go up to any girl and getting a number, I'm just looking to being able to totally be myself with girls and having the skills and balls to get the girl that I finally do want.

I truly believe it's my attitude or outlook, thanks for any advice!