Background: in university I met this HB8.5 in my program. I got her number after sitting next to her one time. I used the "Hey I just met this girl....." text I found from this subreddit which normally would get a response due to it's funny nature but instead I get nothing. This was Friday and I waited til Monday and then I asked her if she received my text at a mixer, I blame it on my phone being on the fritz. She said she received it but she did not know what to reply. I was dumbfounded as this was new to me. A week after that, I noticed that she and her friend was always in a rush going to somewhere which I assume classes. It felt kinda like she was trying to avoid me, but that was just a hunch so I brushed it off

[Last night FR] There was a party with students from my program and I overheard she was going to. So, I went. I dressed better than I would, got my favorite cologne on and my favorite blazer. It was A-Game time. Main Goal: Time to test everything I read throughout the months. Secondary Goal: That HB. I was not letting her ruin MY night. I arrived and it was a sausage fest but using the some seduction techniques I met the main guy of the party and a bunch of new people. Was very fun and educational. Then about an hour or two in the party, she arrived. I noticed here from my peripherals and I chose to "push" her back by ignoring her during the party for a bit and focused on the other women and new friends there. She DEFINITELY noticed me as she was staring at my direction and whispering to her friend as I was talking to a bunch of friends. I know this because I positioned my self inconspicuously so that she was always in my peripherals as I talked, drank and laughed with my buddies. At that time, I assumed that this was the best thing to do to establish the push paradigm.

Then I went to the bathroom to pee. When I was done, I heard a knock on the door and as i opened it to get out, BOOM, it was her. I said to her, "We should stop meeting like this [insert sarcastic grin and head tilt]." (side note: that feeling when you perfectly executed a move that you learned and you think you pulled it off). This is when I noticed her friends down the corridor whispering to each other and looking at me, AGAIN WITH THE WHISPERING. She giggled and said, " Haha yeah (seemed sincere enough), I need to pee really badly though!" She rushed in and closed the door behind me. I said to myself ok, whatever. I proceed to her friends and we made small chat. I left them alone after to get more beer before she came out of the bathroom.

Noticed the time and I had to leave soon. I decided to approach her and I did. She looked like she was just with one friend now. Then I bumped into this the other male friend of hers. I asked questions about her and how they met. Small talk ensued and then I ditched him using my newly found buddies and went to her. Everything feels right + extra info got from her male friend = A-GAME TIME.

Turned out she was going to play beer pong and the only words muttered to me were, "Can you help us find the ping pong ball?" I believe this proves that she doesn't find me a creep. check. After a few minutes of searching, i turned around and to my shock, two big beefy guys surrounding her and her friend. She looked like she was enjoying their company. "FUCK THAT, IM GONNA APPROACH HER!" said the voice in my mind. As soon as I approached, I noticed from the living room window, my taxi was about to leave. GAHH! I had to jet out and left her a text "Gotta go taxi's here."

I feel that I may have set myself to be a beta because of that. Any thought O-fellow seduction-ers! Please if you have a STRONG opinion, I would love it if you elaborate on it. Thanks to all who read and commented.