Hello. A few months ago I had the problem, that my confidence was so poor and I wasn't really good with girls. I wouldn't even come in contact with them because I never spent much time going out. I'm 20 and this is my story.

One day I thought, that I should change my way of living my life. I was always sitting in front of the PC and always thought bad about it but telling me, that I never would get a girlfriend or go even out with one. The problem was not my appearance (I look really normal not fat not too skinny I would say normal like every guy), no my huge problem was my mind telling me that I never would be this successfull. But someday during this summer I thought "Oh really let's try to build up a little this poor confidence" and hoped, that I would get better at it. So I watched Youtube videos and looked all over the internet to look for something that would motivate me. There I found seddit. In seddit I learned many things, that I never really realized when talking with girls. There are storys of other people that are successfull, because of seddit. That all raised my confidence really fast. Since them I tried every day to go out making new friends and get to know new girls I maybe would like.

It all went really good especially when talking to a girl and seducing a girl. I never had so much fun doing this and that with girls and day for day it couldn't get better I thought, but it all went better than expected.

I tried to never think of failure instead I let it all naturally flow and that went very well. Sure I made mistakes too in seducing girls, but I never let my confidence go down because of that I always thought "Well when it wents wrong thant let it be that and don't overthink." mistakes are naturally and I thought always in the view of the opposite one. Mostly the others don't think so bad about the things you say or do accidently or not instead most people will forget those things really fast. I experienced that as well.

However since a few months I have a girlfriend and it's going very well. I know this love won't stay forever, but for the future I'm prepared to get to know many other girls, that I can love and talk with. During this process, I made a lot of girls love me and some still love me and that is a good feeling of success I think.

I wanted to thanks seddit and the users for all that and maybe I can motivate a few people with telling this story. Sry if not :). Maybe it's just because I kicked my ass in building up my confidence and really wanted to achieve this goal but everyone have to find out for himself why he isn't that successfull and how you could change this. Make a step forward and never hesitate. Begin slow and with each step go faster until you run and even if you trip, stand up and ignore that little accident. Sry for my poor english and good luck.