[FR] Need to Fix myself

Mr1725 · 2013-11-01T10:43:16+00:00

Watch some of RSD's vids brah!

You need to get yourself into an abundance mentality. Realize that there are literally millions of attractive females out there ready to be talked to, and stuffing up some interactions isn't the end of the world, or night for that matter.

Have you tried talking to chicks you don't find attractive? Do that first, you'll notice it's much easier as you don't imagine coating dem sugar walls. Interactions with 10/10 chicks should be no different. Work your way up in the 'attractiveness scale' of girls, all the while noticing how easy it really is.

Don't worry about fucking up by saying something stupid. If you worry about what you're going to say, that's when you say stupid shit. It's a vicious cycle isn't it. Easy to break it though! Let it flooooow, don't give a fuuuuuuck.

Best of luck brother.

Gr3yMatter · 2013-11-01T10:50:49+00:00

I'd say work on developing your social skills since that seems to be the problem.

Talk to more people. socialize with more girls. Talk to girls you dont find attractive. It just takes practice. Do this enough and stalling wont be an issue.

perae · 2013-11-01T11:50:45+00:00

It's always hard to do the first approach, but when you get it done, shit just starts naturally flowing from there! The outcome of your first approach, or any of your approaches doesn't matter. As long you do something, it's all that matters! You got an edge on many guys, but you are holding yourself back.

Gr3yMatter · 2013-11-01T11:51:17+00:00

I think part of the problem here may be getting into your body.

I'm the first to admit I've struggledin the past with anxiety and worry. Basically if you can force yourself into open and confident body language and eye contact you will find it easier to be confident and open and eventually this really does become second nature. Eye contact is incredibly powerful when used correctly.

It's hard to be aware of what you're doing with body when you've got all these worries. Meditation and exercise helps, as does just putting an emphasis in you're mind as to how important these things are on a daily basis.

Title	[FR] Need to Fix myself
Author	Gr3yMatter
Upvotes	6
Comments	9
Date	November 1, 2013 8:28 AM UTC (12 years ago)
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