I'm turning into a little bitch and AFCing around a girl I F-Closed

DrawrCheekyMonkey · 2013-11-04T07:11:59+00:00

There's no clear cut step by step method of getting her to like you again. She's outside of your control. This is alright. Because when you talk about going into your own shell, who are you letting be the main character of that story? It's not her, and it's not your frat brother. You're letting a specific you with a certain set of self beliefs take center stage. You're being a certain you (outside of your past actions) that is acting in a way that is causing her (and you) to feel like you're not the grand kickass main character of your own life. As someone who's been through all of the college partying, the moment you HONESTLY treat yourself like you're the one worth the chase and that you're absolutely genuinely worth walking all the way across the party to talk to and to hear your story, you'll be unconcerned with others opinions and attraction factors towards you. And for good reason.

You will instead be so god damn absorbed in the self creation and discipline and practice of your own genuine goals that make you deep down feel amazing (those goals that would make you walk across the crowded party to talk to that person just to figure out how they did exactly what you wanted to do) that women, role models, new friends, mentors, everyone worth their while will come flocking towards you and WANT to make themselves known to you.

So let's assume that this girl isn't on the radar. Let's assume no girls are on your radar, period. What are those things in your life that you can actively pick up and develop for yourself that you genuinely want to do, rather than what you think anyone else (and god forbid an attractive girl) might like to see that you've done? What honestly makes you soar. Go do it. And if you're sort of doing it now, go deeper and do more of the part that you love most about it. Dig deep. Become your own best friend. Become your role model.

Remember. A vital life vitalizes.

puaCurveBall · 2013-11-04T09:48:29+00:00

This belongs in /r/askseddit as it is asking advice for a specific situation / girl

This will stay in spam filter, please repost in the AskSeddit subreddit.(Not askREDDIT, but askSEDDIT) Please read RULES & GUIDELINES. This post is answered by many SIDEBAR guides.

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Also, don't worry about it! You didn't do anything wrong since you didn't know

Title	I'm turning into a little bitch and AFCing around a girl I F-Closed
Author	nooblordpua
Upvotes	1
Comments	4
Date	November 4, 2013 5:36 AM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/1puyd0/im_turning_into_a_little_bitch_and_afcing_around/
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