Male, 20 here. My game has always been alright, but at parties or clubs (mainly frat parties, I'm still a college kid) I'm awful when it actually comes to dancing with girls. I just kind of stand there with my hands on her hips and grind, eventually trying to like move her hair to the side or get her to turn around for a k-close. Also, approach advice? I just kind of vibe and dance around, make eye contact, and if the girl gives a good vibe back (~10% or whatever), just go up, hand on her hip, dance? Any tips on effective dancing? Side note: is it common to just get a freaking boner literally every time I dance with a girl at a party, regardless of my state of inebriation? It's so frustrating/embarrassing. How can I avoid/fix this?