what is the best way to convince a SO to try a threesome?

GovanKilgour · 2013-11-29T23:33:35+00:00

Have your SO be a bisexual woman who leans more towards a preference for women than men. If you see orientation as a graduated scale rather than a black and white; gay vs. straight scale - with bi in the exact middle - then you'd know there is a range between gay and bi where she'll on average have more attraction to women than men.

You need a SO who likes you for your unique male qualities that most men lack from her view, but she has to have a slightly or even largely bigger sex drive for women. It's not about making your SO want to have a threesome, it's about choosing a SO who has these qualities. Some women have these qualities but haven't yet realized it, which if your GF hasn't yet shown them to you, they can be drawn out over time.

A good way to test the waters is to SLOWLY bring up hypothetical situations of group sex (mff) when you're intimate. You have to use your own discretion of when and how it's best to do this. If you're met with harsh and extreme jealousy on her part at the mention of something like "Mmm babe, imagine if your friend so-and-so was massaging you right now as I kissed you...", then your SO is most likely closer to the straight end of the spectrum than even medicochrely bisexual.

Good luck and if this is something you truly desire to have in your life, you must make it a standard for who you have relations with and be prepared to let go of a partner who does not meet this criteria.

The other option if you SO isn't bi enough is to barter a mff threesome for a mmf threesome. If you don't actually have an interest in having a mmf threesome and you're repulsed at the idea of seeing your gf spit roasted between you and some other dude, I don't recommend this strategy. It'll leave you having an unconscious disgust for your gf after the fact if not also make you yourself feel degraded and weak. Decide what you want in your relationship(s) in life and rigorously stick to that standard. Find yourself a unicorn (a bisexual woman with eyes for only one cock in her life) and create the lifestyle of your dreams.

Title	what is the best way to convince a SO to try a threesome?
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Date	November 29, 2013 10:32 PM UTC (12 years ago)
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