I work with a chick that could easily be any guy, in fact, met a few guys with the same traits.

She's 33+ & single (no surprise there after you meet her), and as confident as a guy with elephant size balls.

She tries too desperately and it's evident. I feel like a woman when she approaches me, I put my bitch shield up and defend myself against her relentless seduction attempt.

Let's analyze what she does wrong that makes everyone in the office hate her:

1) Invading personal privacy. She not only does kino while staring directly into your face with OAG look, she also leans forward almost kissing range, it creeps everyone the fuck out. Never touch anyone while leaning in on them or looking directly on their faces, it's a subtle touch for a few seconds most and take it away. Escalate slowly.

2) Crazy talk. I'm cooling off outside during lunch break, staring into the great blue sky, pondering how infinite the universe seems when, "HEY, Did you hear about the woman that was sliced up to pieces?". She tried to follow it up with "Yeah, so, do you want go out with me sometime?" "Sorry busy" "Are you busy on Saturday?" "Yes" "Sunday?" "Yes" "How about not this Saturday but the next one?" "Sorry, already have plans scheduled for the oncoming weekends" "Oh okay, can I add you on facebook?" "I don't have it".

3) Disgusting. Never do, talk or show any girl ever, ever, ever something disgusting, the image of that will be linked to you, every time she sees you she will remember that disgusting thing you did, showed or talked about. I shit you not, this chick went to the bathroom took a massive dump and didn't flush. I can't take the image out of my mind, every time I see her I grimace in disgust. Makes me shudder.

4) Butt-in conversations when you're not welcome. I've seen guys do this as often as she does it. If you approach a group of people talking and they barely listen to what you have to say and keep talking as if you don't exist, eject, immediately. There I was, lunch break, talking to my co-workers, she comes along and butts in on what we're talking about. I couldn't even look at her, she said something I nodded feebly and continued talking to my sane co-workers, but she insisted. She didn't leave, so I left. The group disbanded quickly.

She's a strong, confident woman, but she's oblivious to social cues. Be careful with those, even if you're confident as fuck, be mindful of people's reaction. When you're wanted and when you're not.