Would you go on a trip to Argentina from New York to pickup chicks if you knew for certain that the airplane pilot was also flying for the first time? and that there were no co-pilot. One pilot one plane with a thousand people with you being just one of them. You will feel bad and then even more bad and say fuck it and not go on the trip unless the pilot is your brother and he is a master of a suicide cult and a very good such master at that.

As you can see you can see the parallel to sexual performance in the above example of a first time pilot. Even though you won't die from the inexperienced lover making love to a man who isn't sexually confident, she is far far better off making time for a guy who is such confident.

You might now say "I am confident". The problem with that is that you aren't probably sexually confident even though you are merely confident for sure.

To understand what is sexual confidence and what is just confidence all you have to do is to look at a police officer who is confident at work but fails with women. Sexual confidence is a FEELING you have and should have ALWAYS which should be like the FEELING you would have if lets say you go to a party and five girls invite you to the hot tub and you six have party public sex orgy with those five girls in front of all the people at that party.

WTF?

How do I have such a feeling and how do I have a such a feeling always you may ask? Well, some are born with it and some learn it but most people definitely have to learn it.

The key to having the feeling of sexual confidence always even if you are a virgin is to first imagine/visualise yourself having a truly pornographic experience and then affirm yourself as much as possible that it happens specifically when it comes to your mind that those things don't happen to you. Basically, I am telling you to do affirmations regularly telling yourself that you are a sexually confident man. When you do affirm you self attach the feelings that you had when imagining/visualising as before to the affirmations. Do this regularly for about 90 days and you will start to have TRUE connections with girls.