so i decided to throw together a karaoke night out with friends yesterday. i used it as a reason to send a txt invite to a person from my previous field report. she couldn't come out it turns out, but i didn't let that bother me at all. the fact she was still happy to hear from me was all i needed.

the night started slow with just me and two friends. i planned on trying to approach someone and get some practice in. but there was very few people there as it was a monday. i actually ended up talking to a guy at the bar for a few mins and the kj(karaoke jockey). but mostly for the first 2 hours, i just chatted it up with my friends.

then the rest of the group came in over the next hour. our group was 5 girls and 3 guys. our table went from the quiet table to the center of attention. i focused on the group entirely and tried to make everyone feel comfortable, as some didn't know each other. also i looked around and there still didn't seem like there was anyone i could approach. so i just had fun with my friends. at some point this HB9 is up on stage and shes rocking it. i comment to my friends that her dress is supper hot and we are all cheering her on. after her song i noticed she went back to a group of all guys.

honestly i left it at that. the thought to go up and try and hit on her in that group of guys didn't even cross my brain. i went back to focusing on my group and our collective happiness. some guy had joined our group and was talking to a friend of mine. she seemed to not mind, so i wing-maned him and tossed him softballs. i did my best to help him fit into our group.

then as the place is closing i notice my good friend(a girl) is talking to the HB9. so i walked over and said hi to my friend, then i turned to the HB9 and with eye contact i said hi im shamanPUA and extended my hand. she shook my hand and told me her name. then i said "i was telling all my friends that you are beautiful but that dress makes you look 10x more hot." she really liked the compliment and turned around to show me the logo and brand name of the dress. the energy was good and i could feel the sexual tension THICK in the air. another friend on there way out called to me for some reason. so i kind of took an easy out and said "it was nice to meet you maybe i'll see you around." then i ran over to my friends, tail between my legs.

im almost out the door and i realize i forgot to pay my tab. so i go over to the bar and stand there waiting 5 mins for them to get to me. i see her with 3 guys around her on the other end of the bar. i also take note that it didn't appear any of them were her boyfriend. so i decided to man up and make a move.

i walked over put my hand square on her back, looked her in the eyes and said " hey (her name) can i get your number we should hang out sometime." she said "sure". i fumbled my phone badly. im terrible with my stupid smartphone so it took me like a full min to be ready for her number. but i stayed cool, i didn't let that bother me and just stayed focused on the task. in this time she says "i just want you to know, i don't date". so i responded "that's not a problem, i am a free bird" to which she replied by whispering her number in my ear probably because she didn't want the other 3 guys hearing it.

anyway i have to go. this turned out way to long again =/ sorry for my terrible grammar. maybe i will add more later if people are interested.