Hey y'all,

So here's the synopsis of my story; I'd have a fling with a girl, it would be going well for awhile, and then it'd stop after 2 weeks to a couple of months, all with the same excuse of "It's not you, it's me."

Some said they were fucked up by previous ex boyfriend and couldn't give back what I was giving them, others had some sexual assault history and were uncomfortable with casual sex.

So, I'm trying to figure out if I'm just having a streak of bad luck or there is something I'm goofing on.

Also, what are your guidelines for maintaining a fling/casual sex/fuck buddies/ect.?