Hi sedditors!! Male here. I'll keep this short and simple. I'm focusing on a girl in college that I usually get along very well. Thing is... I can't seem to act to her the same way I act with my other lady friends. With those lady friends I am confident, fun, and sexually flirty, I could have them if I wanted to, just need to give a little push and that's it. However I don't act the same with the girl I'm focused on? I'm still fun, confident but come across as a more friendly guy. It's good to be friendly but I want to project more tension and seriousness. This is not oneitis. Can I anybody explain why this is happening?