I'm in a vicious cycle

Pit_Sweat · 2014-02-08T05:44:59+00:00

Make a list of all the positive qualities about yourself that women would be lucky to have. Maybe you're smart, maybe you've got a lot of money, maybe you're good at telling jokes. Doesn't matter what they are, just be honest with yourself. You'll see that you've got a lot more going for you than you think.

Out of all the things you dislike about yourself, pick out the things that you can change, and change them. One at a time, one step at a time. Maybe you're too fat, maybe you don't have enough muscle, maybe you sit around playing WoW all day. All those things can be changed. Set goals for yourself. Maybe aim to change one bad quality about yourself a week or something like that. For the stuff you can't change, like if you have a crooked nose or something, don't think about them ever again.

Lastly, pick something you've always wanted to do but never really had the time for. Maybe you've always wanted to do MMA, or go hiking or camping, or take dance lessons. Pick one every week or every month, and do them. Live the life you want to live.

Girls don't love you because you don't love you. And you don't love you because you think that girls need to love you for you to be somebody. Break that cycle by learning to love yourself regardless of how women respond to you. Invest in yourself.

kebuenowilly · 2014-02-08T06:08:26+00:00

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money666 · 2014-02-09T17:45:43+00:00

Focus on yourself. First you have to love yourself. Work on yourself innergame. How do you do that? Make a schedule of activities for yourself and never drop these plans for no one. You should be going to the gym alteast 3 times a week for 2 hrs. This will increase you confidence. YOU HAVE TO INVEST IN YOURSELF. Get a job and upgrade your wardrobe. When you do this you will stop depending on girls to stimulate you. And last of all find wings online to go out and learn pickup.

Title	I'm in a vicious cycle
Author	newalt88
Upvotes	4
Comments	9
Date	February 8, 2014 4:18 AM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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