Okay seddit, this is my last chance and I need some serious advice!

2014-02-12T23:17:06+00:00

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2014-02-12T23:17:30+00:00

Stop putting pressure on yourself. Relax, drink some tea, rub one out, and get a good night's sleep. Remember the concept of state transference. Whatever you feel, she feels. You'll make her day just by being relaxed and fun to be around, because that will make her relaxed and have fun.

You don't need a winning play or a way to impress her. If you do that, not only are you putting pressure on yourself, but you're pressuring the girl as well (she'll feel obligated to validate your actions, which will make her uncomfortable). Just chill. When you're coming from a place of positive calmness, you'll generally do everything correctly anyway. She'll be more likely to see you again because you'll be one of the few people where she can genuinely feel at ease around, allowing her to relax and have fun (which also increases the likelihood of getting laid).

2014-02-12T23:21:42+00:00

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Pit_Sweat · 2014-02-12T23:26:04+00:00

Just go and have fun man, it doesn't matter what you do or don't do. The more you think about how to do things right, ironically, the more likely you are to mess up, because it's the anxious, subservient mentality that gets you.

There are a million ways to have fun. Go in, pretend you're a customer and ask which foundation would best match your skin tone. Hang out for a while, and when a real customer comes along, ask them if you can help them as if you actually work there. Get the picture? That's the mentality you should strive for.

Also, engage the coworkers. It's really just a big hangout is what you're doing.

puaCurveBall · 2014-02-12T23:29:11+00:00

This belongs in /r/askseddit as it is asking advice for a specific situation / girl

This will stay in spam filter, please repost in the AskSeddit subreddit.(Not askREDDIT, but askSEDDIT) Please read RULES & GUIDELINES. This post is answered by many SIDEBAR guides.

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Also, don't worry about it! You didn't do anything wrong since you didn't know

Title	Okay seddit, this is my last chance and I need some serious advice!
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Upvotes	3
Comments	7
Date	February 12, 2014 11:04 PM UTC (12 years ago)
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